We’ve all heard that really life is what you make of it. It’s the idea that even despite our circumstances (good or bad) somehow we are in charge of our destiny. And while I understand the sentiment, those thoughts are often misguided when it comes to our autonomy and free will and God’s sovereignty. But when circumstances get tough, usually the questions and trite quotes come. People falling into the proverbial ditches on either side of this road of life….